How to Use Your Body Language Signals on Dates.

April Braswell - 20 November 2008

How to Use Your Body Language Signals on Dates.


In my work as a dating and relationship coach, many of my dating and relationship clients are looking to attract love, meet more people, and get more dates.



But how are we to do that - attract love? How do we signal our romantic sex interest to others?



Of course, you are probably already thinking, Well, of course, you need to flirt, silly! Yes, Do be sure to flirt. But what if your words are flirtatious and fine but your body language is incongruent with your fun and romantic flirtatious manner? What will your body talk actually signal to the other person?



That you are NOT interested in them.



Our words can say one thing, but what matters the MOST when you are making a first impression for sexual chemistry and romance is YOUR BODY LANGUAGE.



Your body language must ring TRUE, expressing that you are sexually and romantically interested in the other person.



One of the best ways to ensure that your body language is speaking that you indeed ARE interested is to consciously leverage the lighting to your advantage.



When our pupils are dilated, it often means that we find the person we are looking at sexually ATTRACTIVE. It can mean other things as well. It could just be that we find them INTERESTING. However, even THAT is advantageous where romantic love and relationships are concerned. Because our unconscious mind knows that dilated pupil looking at us equals You are interested by me… We will automatically respond to you with greater interest because you unconsciously signaled your interest in us. Ladies, this tidbit ALONE can lead to MORE dates and MORE SECOND DATES.



Yes, we need to dress in sexually alluring outfits which communicate our availability and romantic interest. However, we also need to be sure to POSITION ourselves in locations where the lights are low and our pupils will automatically be dilating…. Where would that be?



In bars and dimly light restaurants! When you are arranging to meet for a Date0 with someone you met through an online dating site, do be sure to arrange to meet at a classy bar or softly light restaurant. When you follow this simple and easy dating time, you WILL get more second dates!



Happy dating!

 April Braswell is a leading Dating and Relationship Coach, specializing in Online Dating Coaching and working with clients over 40.

Source: http://www.AprilBraswell.com

 
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